regrets

Do you have any regrets? I do! I have but one regret in my life, and it came back to haunt me yesterday. I don't wish to make it public, but trust me when I tell you that it is something really bad. No, I haven't killed anyone, just not yet.
My boyfriend told me he knew yesterday, he also said he did not care. He loves me now, not in my past. He does not care what I did, he cares about what I will do in the future, especially with him.

It just made me wonder though, do you guys out there have any regrets? How do you deal with them? How do you sleep at night?

I just don't really know what to honestly think right now, except for the part that I think it makes me stronger to know that even that one bad thing in my life, will not ruin me anymore unless I let it. I still think it's horrible, that I shouldn't have done it, but there's not much I can do to solve it now, can I?

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  1. well the chinese say that you don't need to worry about things that can be altered and about things that cannot be altered.
    this is the whole truth around regrets of any kind. if it is something you can change you can always reverse the situation. if it is something you cannot change then you shouldn't traumatise yourself with guilt as there is nothing you can do about it.

    Yes I do have regrets. And I don't believe people that say they don't. Regrets teach you a lesson, if you decide to learn from it then you won't be making the same mistake in the future.

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  2. I also worry to much and I have regrets that I shouldn't be having either. I try to accept the past, because I believe everything has a reason. Whatever happened, whatever you did wrong before, it will prove a lesson for your future, like Ira said.

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